Speaking on behalf of women, being in a relationship causes us to sustain many pressures. Or so we think. We relate our real life love story with those near perfect fairy tales fed to us by media and movies. We assume men have to be willing to sweep us off our feet whenever they get the chance. Men need to hold our hand everytime we walk side by side and they need to take us out to extravagant and lavish resteraunts and dates. The truth of the matter is that men , just like women, have feelings and wants and desires to love and be loved. Because I think it's impossible to stuff everyone's love life into a generic category, I like to use my personal experinces as a precedent:
1)When your boyfriend/husband doesn't want to talk, he is not being an a** he just doesn't want to talk.
2)When he needs to be alone or with the guys he is not being an a** he just wants to be an individual.
I figured out one of the keys to a successful relationship is the more you push the more your partner pulls, so don't push so much. Much like a teenager who is being told what to do every minute of the day, they might just turn and rebel completely against you. The objective is not to work against but with one another. And ladies don't over-analyze everything, enjoy the little moments that he does takes your breath away.*
Love,
Heather
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